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| Quote alegend="alegend"You could have told us that before we signed him=#FF0000 most of the fans at Wakefield have anxiety issues watching them play .,but there again =#FF0000if he gets a anxiety issue and does not play if he is in the North stand he should feel right at home'"
If its true - and not to try and joke about anxiety in general....
He'll fit in well then.... 
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| Quote alegend="alegend"You could have told us that before we signed him most of the fans at Wakefield have anxiety issues watching them play .,but there again if he gets a anxiety issue and does not play if he is in the North stand he should feel right at home'"
Well, she couldn't because it's never been mentioned by anyone until today when it was made up. 
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| I'm not diminishing anxiety at all as its serious but if we are talking about anxiety that would stop him playing rugby, you'd think it would have affected his other 200+ games.
I'm calling this out as made up smelly stuff.
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| Quote jools="jools"nope - he picked up a non season ending injury in June was available in August - but didnt play again. He never took to the field in a giants shirt for the rest of the year. He has anxiety issues and has been known to pull out of games at the last minute. perhaps this was a similar issue.'"
We're not all gullible as you 
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| Keith Smith used to suffer from.
Not wanting to get on the pitch at the start and again at half time.
Don't think anxiety was talked about back then but apparently Keith used to be a nervous wreck.
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| Quote lampyboy="lampyboy"Keith Smith used to suffer from.
Not wanting to get on the pitch at the start and again at half time.
Don't think anxiety was talked about back then but apparently Keith used to be a nervous wreck.'"
Everyone gets it to varying degrees but if you can play RL 200 times in front of thousands of people you can live with it. Lots of actors and players etc often puke up before a performance but they still do it because the reward outdoes the pain. The more they puke the more they are up for the game and the better they often are.
There are exceptions, I shouldn't think Paul Gascoigne was ever nervous, to daft, or Eric Cantona, supremely arrogant and self-confident but most do.
I myself struggle in front of anyone who isn't family or friends and even then......
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| Quote PopTart="PopTart"I'm not diminishing anxiety at all as its serious but if we are talking about anxiety that would stop him playing rugby, you'd think it would have affected his other 200+ games.
I'm calling this out as made up smelly stuff.'"
It`s not made up Poptart, Lee suffers big time with anxiety and panic attacks, not just rugby related, in day to day life so that quite obviously will and has had some effect on his work no doubt. His problems were well documented a few years back when he had to be rested for a period of time after pulling out of a game with what he thought was a heart attack which turned out to be a panic attack.
Anxiety issues can obviously be triggered at any stage in life, he had already played around 150 games by the time he started having the anxiety issues so the 200+ games argument doesn`t really mean that much in that context.
It`s obviously something that needs to be managed from a player welfare perspective and from what I hear as a club we offer great support to players in this, but FWIW I think Lee will go really well for us.
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| Quote Wildcat26="Wildcat26"It`s not made up Poptart, Lee suffers big time with anxiety and panic attacks, not just rugby related, in day to day life so that quite obviously will and has had some effect on his work no doubt. His problems were well documented a few years back when he had to be rested for a period of time after pulling out of a game with what he thought was a heart attack which turned out to be a panic attack.
Anxiety issues can obviously be triggered at any stage in life, he had already played around 150 games by the time he started having the anxiety issues so the 200+ games argument doesn`t really mean that much in that context.
It`s obviously something that needs to be managed from a player welfare perspective and from what I hear as a club we offer great support to players in this, but FWIW I think Lee will go really well for us.'"
You mean he’s a nervous person, so what, that’s a million miles away from a genuine disability.
I’m sorry and I accept some of the recent stuff regarding mental health but this is ridiculous nonsense. At the end of the day it’s a mans game, it’s not meant for fragile people like me. If you can’t hack it then don’t do it. It’s not like the money is all that great.
It’s getting pathetic this making everyday human emotions into massive issues, we all suffer anxieties it’s part of life and part of nature.
I’d love to know when it became part of the norm that everyone is guaranteed their every issue catered for. We are no longer a caring nation imho but a feeble one if pre match anxiety is now considered an excuse to not play a game.
Get real and let’s hope heart surgeons or policeman at riots don’t take the same attitude. Jeez I despair, does that mean I’ve got anxiety issues, you bet I have.
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| Quote vastman="vastman"You mean he’s a nervous person, so what, that’s a million miles away from a genuine disability.
I’m sorry and I accept some of the recent stuff regarding mental health but this is ridiculous nonsense. At the end of the day it’s a mans game, it’s not meant for fragile people like me. If you can’t hack it then don’t do it. It’s not like the money is all that great.
It’s getting pathetic this making everyday human emotions into massive issues, we all suffer anxieties it’s part of life and part of nature.
I’d love to know when it became part of the norm that everyone is guaranteed their every issue catered for. We are no longer a caring nation imho but a feeble one if pre match anxiety is now considered an excuse to not play a game.
Get real and let’s hope heart surgeons or policeman at riots don’t take the same attitude. Jeez I despair, does that mean I’ve got anxiety issues, you bet I have.'"
Just simply relaying the truth, did anyone ever refer to it as a disability? Can`t find where anyone said that. I wonder if Stu Dickens will take the same attitude towards him upon approach, I sincerely hope not.
Imagine if the likes of Tom Holmes, on the brink of suicide was told by the Welfare team at Fev, it`s a mans game, not meant for fragile people.
FWIW as well, there will be plenty of Heart surgeons and policemen that have had to take time of off work due to mental health issues, so you can hope all you want, it happens.
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| Quote vastman="vastman"Well, she couldn't because it's never been mentioned by anyone until today when it was made up.
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aw vasty - i love it when you act all knowledgeable and try to belittle others just to make yourself look clever. especially when it makes you look quite the opposite.
If it IS all made up it was made up by the player himself - so either way......
if I could be bothered id go on line and find all the interviews he'd done that mention it - but I honestly cant be bothered to put you right. I'll let you do that in your own time - plenty out there, and somewhere I even have a program with a big piece all about it.
As for your attitude towards those with mental health issues - well I wouldn't expect anything different from you to be honest.
just imagine that he's read your comments and that's playing on his mind prior to him taking to the field for Wakey........
ps apology accepted 
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| Quote PopTart="PopTart"I'm not diminishing anxiety at all as its serious but if we are talking about anxiety that would stop him playing rugby, you'd think it would have affected his other 200+ games.
I'm calling this out as made up smelly stuff.'"
then you're another that looks a bit silly - and a smple google would have prevented it.
- and despite your comment you really are dismissing anxiety if you can say aww well he played 200 games so he cant be affected by anxiety. There are plenty of ways to become informed on the issue. I suggest you try some.
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