Quote TimmySmith="TimmySmith"Disgusting way to think and to post it on here too!
The fact we have people in our own sport that have attempted to/taken their own life due to anxiety, stress and depression, some of which being a direct result of playing and we still have people who come out with statements like this.
I don’t understand what the issue is with someone struggling? I’d sooner see Lee sit on the bench all year and conquer whatever troubles him than have someone playing through something like that, regardless of how little it may be.
The bottom line is everyone is different, everybody is effected by different things so to diminish someone’s anxiety simply because he plays in “a man’s game” is the issue, that’s the part that is pathetic.'"
Oh, grow up you sad bandwagon jumper.
In the last five years, I've had a good friend lose his life to cancer, I've had cancer myself but worse I spent three nights on a ward, whilst the man opposite slowly died in agony of the same cancer as my own but he did do with dignity and bravery. I also work with a young lady who lost her husband of only six months due to a road accident, she never moans, complains, or feels sorry for herself and has never missed a day's work, something I wouldn't begrudge her.
Yet people like you dare to tell people like me that they should feel sorry for a Rugby player with stage fright, only a fool would be so naff.
A young man who kills himself has issues way beyond that of being an RL player. There is no pressure in pro sport that is enough by itself to trigger suicide, it has to go way deeper than that.
Nobody makes them play the game, the monies are not so wonderful you couldn't pass it up so if he doesn't like it then he doesn't have to play.
On the other hand young parents struggling on minimum wage with a poorly child whilst living on a sink estate, they have problems, but most don't kill themselves or claim stress as an excuse for not carrying on, they just get on with it as countess generations have.
People like you make me sick, you have no idea about life and real pressure. Take a sabbatical to Afghanistan, see if you feel quite so sorry for a Rugby player who gets nervous before a game.
Finally, at this level, it is a man's game and it's ludicrous to argue otherwise. You wouldn't see a doctor who couldn't stand the sight of blood or a plumber who was scared of water, so why on earth do you think it's in any way right to have a sportsman/entertainer who is scared to play in front of a crowd, your whole argument is idiotic.
If Gaskell has these issues then he has my sympathy and my advice would be to pack the game in. He's not doing himself any favours nor is he giving the speccies what they deserve for their hard-earned cash. The fact that he's played over 200 games leads me to believe it's a very small issue being blown out of all proportion by a Hudds troll who found a gullible audience in yourself. Finally, and I don't care if this shocks or offends, but I don't pay my season ticket money for the club to support a player who can't play for any reason other than injuries or genuine tragedies. I pay my taxes and my NI for the NHS to do that.
No reason to be unkind, be supportive to a point but at the end of the day go be an electrician if playing the sport you get paid to play reduces you to a wreck ALLEGEDLY.